FLR, FemDom, & Women in Charge

It's time for the best of FLR, FemDom, & Women in Charge!  

Did you miss the welcome? Watch it below!


๐Ÿ‘  10am - 11:30am EDT: Emotionally Charged Play (presented by Mia Action)

๐Ÿ‘  11am - 12:30pm EDT: Creating Your First Protocol Event for Your Miss, Maโ€™am, or Woman in Charge (presented by Unruly Nerd Girl)

๐Ÿ‘  12pm - 1:30pm EDT: Practical Chastity for People with Penises (presented by Darren Infinity)

๐Ÿ‘  1pm - 2:30pm EDT: He Wears The Dress: Cross Dressing & Feminization For Newbies (presented by d20domme)

๐Ÿ‘  2pm - 3:30pm EDT: Your PhD in Understanding Submission (presented by Undergroundsea)

๐Ÿ‘  3pm - 4:30pm EDT: EmPOWERed Women (presented by รine)

๐Ÿ‘  4pm - 5:30pm EDT: Creating Contracts for M/s or D/s Relationships (presented by Lady Ginger)

๐Ÿ‘  5pm - 6:30pm EDT: When Dominants Go Wrong: What are the warning signs? (presented by Coralyn Jewel)

๐Ÿ‘  6pm - 7:30pm EDT: Mistress Mentoring Negotiation in CNC: YES!! You Have A Say! (presented by MsBossyButterfly)

๐Ÿ‘  7pm - 8:30pm EDT: Financial Freedom to Ultimate Sexual Freedom: a Pathway for Womenโ€™s Empowerment (presented by Crystal Welch)

๐Ÿ‘  8:30pm - 10pm EDT: A Discussion of Woman-Centric Nonmonogamy (presented by Cuckoldress Scarlet)

๐Ÿ‘  10pm - 11:30pm EDT: What Women* Want Podcast Panel (hosted by Catsuit)

The social lounge will be open until midnight!


๐Ÿ‘  5pm EDT: Welcome & Official Kickoff! Open the social lounge, start connecting!

๐Ÿ‘  6:30pm-8pm EDT: Fluidity in Mistress Role Identity (presented by MsBossyButterfly)

๐Ÿ‘  8pm - 9:30pm EDT: 3 Languages of D/s (Maintaining a Thriving D/s Relationship) (presented by Undergroundsea)

๐Ÿ‘  10pm - midnight EDT: Speed Kinking & Virtual Social! Get to know the people at the event through casual chat, speed kinking, and more. 

The social lounge will be open 24 hours!


๐Ÿ‘  10am - 12pm EDT: Building Your Best-Fit WIC Relationship Workshop (presented by MissNookie)

๐Ÿ‘  12pm - 1pm EDT: Lunch Break, Group Fluid Space

๐Ÿ‘  1pm - 3pm EDT: Workshop, Cont. 

๐Ÿ‘  3pm - 4pm EDT: Break, Group Fluid Space

๐Ÿ‘  4pm - 6pm EDT: Workshop, Cont. 

๐Ÿ‘  6pm - 7pm EDT: Break, Group Fluid Space

๐Ÿ‘  3pm - 4pm EDT: Cock and Awe (presented by Mistress Schari)

๐Ÿ‘  3pm - 4pm EDT: Femdom For You: Discovering, Centering And Getting Your Desires Met (presented by Miss Pearl)

The social lounge will be open 24 hours!


We at Dating Kinky care about your privacy. In fact, we host monthly Keeping Secrets webinars all about protecting your kinky identity, and I've written a lot about how DK uses the information you give us and how to protect yourself. 

You'll probably want to look through those links, just to brush up.


Presenters will have audio and video, while attendees (that's you) will be chat-only during the presentations. 

There is a Q&A section, to make sure that your questions stand out from the overall chatter, and there are reaction options to let you quickly let the speakers know how you feel.


If you've been to one of our online social events, then you know how this works.

Q. Do I need a certain app?

A. No. No need to download anything. You can access it through your web.

Q. Can I access with mobile?

A. Yes! Use the links below to get your mobile app.

Our social area is audio/video capable. As attendees, you'll be able to join an event-wide chat, grab a seat at a table with other kinksters, check out the exhibitor area (and join conversations there) and more.

All with audio and video! It's a great way of connecting with others.

If you've not really done much of this yet, you may want to read through our Video Privacy Tips and take any steps you might need to feel fully comfortable and ready to mingle.

Q. How do I protect my privacy? 

A. I mentioned a few things ^^^ Up there.  

You will also want to look at this walk-through to get an idea of the event space and how to fill out your entry registration to protect yourself in the BEST way possible: 

A quick walk-through (highly recommended)

Here are a few more tips:

Continue with Email:
THIS is the most discreet way to enter the event.

Enter Your Name:
Put in your scene name, or whatever you'd like people to call you during the event. 

 We've also customized the form to give your pronouns, kink role and more. 

Q. Do I need to bring money?  

A. No. There will be a few exhibitor booths, so you are welcome to look around, and you'll be given some cool offers, but really, everything for this weekend is included, so there's nothing you'll need your wallet for quickly.

Q. What should I expect?


Amazing kinky folk to meet and get to know, and make lasting friendships.

Laughter. We cut up a lot, and have a great time.

Learning. We love to learn, and the people that we choose to teach bring varied and interesting perspectives on kink.

Great conversations! So far, the social area has been home to some amazing (and deep!) conversation about kink, life, and everything, so come prepared!

Anything else? Well, that's just a cherry on top!

Q. Wait, are you recording everything?

A. No. We are recording the educational events. The social areas for chat, video and audio are not recorded.

Q. What are the rules?

A. Here are Dating Kinky's Community Guidelines that apply to EVERY event and virtual space (including our site).

In addition, consent is key, especially with video.

If you like to be nude, for example, you are welcome to be! However, please keep in mind that not everyone will want to see that. So:

There will be several tables specifically set aside for nudity, and people who enjoy looking at it.

You are welcome to join other tables as long as your camera is always kept focused away from explicit bits.

If you are nude, please don't constantly proclaim this. No one really cares.

Q. How do we give feedback? 

A. YAY! We love it when our members speak for us. Leave us an honest testimonial of your experience with our FLR, FemDom & Women in Charge Event. 

Thanks in advance! 

(If you would like to leave an audio review, just cover your camera! We'd love that, too!)

Q. How do we continue the conversation after the event? 

A. Join us in the Curiouser discord! 

Then, send a private message to Ryan (castaway) or Miss Nookie with your registered email, and we'll add you to the private discussions. *smiles*

Q. Do you have another event coming up?

A. YES! We have the next two planned: In October, we have Into The Woods: Fear & Primal Play, and in February 2023, we have She Comes First: Cuckolding and Other Bullfriend Lifestyles

You can sign up for Into the Woods information using the link below: 

FLR, FemDom, & Women in Charge