FLR, FemDom, & Women in Charge
Are you answering from a top/dominant/both perspective? Please feel free to note if you are also a switch.
Would you consider yourself sadistic in the psychiatric sense, ie you receive sexual gratification from causing pain and degradation to another for the sake of the pain?
Would you consider yourself sadistic in the lifestyle sense, ie you enjoy (even receive sexual gratification from) causing pain and suffering specifically when another desires it?
Would you identify more with the idea that you enjoy pain and suffering because it fulfills your bottom/partner in a compersionistic way?
Do you specifically seek out relationship partners based on their pain tolerance or desire for pain/suffering play?